What if Death Isn’t What You’ve Been Told?

Let's talk about death for a moment. I know- fun subject- lol!

I helped someone go into the Light in real time again two weeks ago. I'm being hired for this more and more and it's such a privilege and such an honor.

It makes me cry every single time because it’s so phenomenally beautiful and filled with love; it transcends words as someone goes into the Light.

This most recent person hired me a couple weeks before he was to die and then again for the actual time itself.

In answering some of his questions, I realized how much fear is ingrained into us because of faulty beliefs and other people’s fears. As well as deeply embedded religious teaching that suicide is wrong and you'll go to hell.

First, from my perspective, there is no such thing as hell. Hell is a mindset of your negative ego that people experience on this plane of existence. There's not an actual place of hell, nor is there a devil. The personification of the devil is one's own negative ego. Both hell and the devil at their core, are a separation from Love. From the Divine/God/The Goddess/Source.

What a great way to put people in fear and control them - say they’ll go to hell if they don’t behave a certain way, or that the devil is after them. Think of the terror that can cause, thus having that person abdicate their own sovereignty and personal power to be “saved.”

If God is Love as religion says, then it’s an oxymoron to also say God will punish you. They cannot co-exist. That’s a man-made image of God.

(If you’ve read any of my work over the last almost decade, you know this gets me fired up-lol!)

The Divine by any name is Love Itself, and a separation from that energy is what creates literal pain – on this plane.

I have seen and worked with many people who died by suicide and immediately went into the light. They were not “punished” for it. They are just as worthy of Divine Love as we all are.

The clients I’ve had over the years who were dying either naturally or by assisted suicide, have all gone immediately into the Light.

Now, 2 caveats to this: there can be a Soul issue with suicide IF done as a way to hurt others. When it’s a F* you, you’ll have some work to do on the other side and in your next incarnation.

Then there are those who are in SO much pain and separation, that when they die, they don’t allow themselves to go into the Light right away. That’s on them, not God. They don’t feel worthy and can get stuck.

When I encounter those Souls, I help them in.

The way I see the afterlife is that everyone creates their own version of Heaven. You’ll stay there for a while, doing a life review with your unseen team and visiting with loved ones who’ve passed- if you so choose. It’s YOUR Heaven. And not Heaven in a religious way, Heaven as a place that brings you the greatest joy and bliss.

When I work with people, we talk about their Heaven and actively create it so there’s a path they easily see. This will happen for everyone naturally, but when you design it ahead of time, it’s a more elegant transition.

So, you can start thinking about this for yourself or if you know loved ones getting ready to transition- what do you/they most want the other side to look like?

Side note: one of the most loving acts is to let someone go who’s physically suffering. Grief is HARD, letting go is HARD, and yet, it’s such an act of grace to say, “I love you enough to let you go.” It’s not easy but keeping people alive when they’re in pain is cruel. I’m grateful to live in a state where assisted suicide is legal.

If I can leave you with anything, it’s to take the stigma and fear off of death. It’s called a transition because you’re literally transitioning from one plane of existence to another.

Your loved ones are still present. Talk to them, ask them for help. They’re there.

I could keep going because I have so much more to say about this topic, but for now, most importantly, don’t give your power away to the fear of death. It can be so hard to verbalize unless experienced, but the other side is Love- it’s that vibration at its purest essence and it’s truly extraordinary.