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From Confusion, To Clarity

6/2/2021

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I don’t think we’re ever truly confused when it comes to making choices. We may say we are, but underneath, it’s usually because there’s fear blocking what we think we can have. Of our choices, one choice is the “shoulds” that speak to what’s expected of us or our duties and obligations, and the other choice is our true desire. For a myriad of reasons, we don’t think we can claim that which we truly desire, and so we create confusion. 
 
It can be scary to follow your dreams or to walk away from something/someone. It can be scary to declare the path you’re drawn to taking. So as a subconscious protection from stepping out and owning what we really want, and potentially disappointing/upsetting our family/friends, we get confused. But all that confusion is just noise. Noise preventing us from knowing the truth of what our gut really says. You need to drop out of the noise and go down into the gut.
 
Start with this: the next time you feel confused when faced with a choice, get out of your head, out of what everyone else says and what you think is “right,” and ask in the quiet stillness of your gut what direction to take/what your answer is. Be still and listen. It may not come at first. There may be programming to unravel of all the times you acquiesced or surrendered your will. But the answer is there. As is the knowing. They’re not in your head, they’re in your gut. 
 
When you get your answer, then act on it. Even if it’s out of your comfort zone, even if it’s scary. Change your perception and translate the fear as excitement and good nervousness for all the amazing things coming your way as you follow your truth.
 
Don’t worry how others will react. It’s your reality, you need to create a life you’re proud of. 
 
When people are dying, they regret the things they didn’t pursue, the courage they didn’t call upon. Don’t create a regret, create what you most desire. Move out of confusion, allow and receive clarity, and then move forward in the direction of your dreams.
 

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Jenn P.
6/2/2021 12:08:17 pm

Did you write this for me? LOL! Clearly you knew I needed it!
I worked myself into a lather of confusion recently trying to appease everyone else around me, while not just claiming what I wanted. I debated and debated, too afraid to upset everyone, which only made me more confused. Thank you for this. No more confusion. Time to own what I want!

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Tina G
6/19/2021 03:36:53 pm

Hi Jenn! Yes claim what YOU want- you have a right to be heard. And remember, trying to not upset others, means you end up upsetting yourself. You matter. You’re not responsible for their upset. Especially if you’re speaking your the truth in a loving way.
xo

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