The universe is always expanding, there’s always more.
You may think that Source/The Universe/God is punishing you by not giving you love or money, but Source is there with open arms. It’s about something blocked inside of you, versus something happening outside of you.
If you feel angry at the Universe for not giving to you, recognize that the Universe is not sitting there with some arbitrary stick judging who gets to receive and who doesn’t. You need to look at what beliefs, thoughts, ideas, etc. in you that are in resistance, or in opposition, to receiving.
Maybe you’re tied to a story of lack and limitation, or struggle and suffering. Maybe you don’t feel worthy to receive. Is there a part of you that believes there’s a fixed amount of anything, versus an abundance?
Many were raised to see God as a parental/authority figure versus an energy of love. When you personify the Universe to be like your parents or other authority figures were, then anywhere that they withheld love, affection, money, etc., you will subconsciously attribute to the Universe/Source/God. Remember, the old testament god was pretty vengeful. How much did that infiltrate your mind? And even if you’ve worked to overcome that programming, does it still subconsciously influence you?
This is the origin of worth issues that you can’t identify. Especially after you’ve cleared issues from childhood. What better way to control someone, then tell them that they’re not worthy of God’s love and need to spend their life trying to make up for that?
If that triggers you, then you know there’s issues to be cleared.
Really sit with the idea of a loving Universe/Goddess/God/Source that wants you to succeed, wants you to shine, wants you to have your deepest dreams and desires. Can you accept that, or do you dismiss it and go into resistance? Is any part of your body right now tight and shutting down, or are you feeling open and expansive? Your body won’t lie. It’ll tell you whether that’s true for you based on how you feel.
Play with these ideas, and allow yourself to shift perspective. Challenge yourself when you hear yourself spouting beliefs that may have come from your family, your religion, or society. Ask yourself, “Is this true?” And if you do believe it to be true, ask yourself, “Why?”
Truly observe through your words, feelings, and behaviors, if you see the world as finite, or infinite. If you see Source/Divinity/The Universe as withholding/punishing or accepting and loving.
You are incredibly worthy of joy, money, abundance, and love, simply because you exist.
Sit with that this week.
What you believe shapes your world; how about opening to a new set of beliefs around the Universe supporting you, cheering you on, giving to you freely, and your worthiness of love, money, and abundance. It's time to create a new world for yourself.
Everything comes down to your worth: what you think you’re worthy of. You will receive in direct proportion to how worthy you feel.
Your priorities are based on your worth: are you worthy of your dreams coming true? If so, you’ll make the time to create that which you desire. If not, as Marie Forleo says, “you’ll make excuses.”
Your worth is seen in the people you attract; especially romantic partners. If you don’t feel worthy of love, you’ll attract someone unavailable, distant, maybe someone who uses you or just doesn’t give you what you need. At the worst, you'll attract someone abusive.
Your worth shows in your health; do you care for your body and feed it healthy things, or do you punish/ignore/drive it?
Your worth shows in your self-care; do you care how you look and nurture yourself with niceties or do you think, “why bother?”
Your worth shows in how you’re treated at work. Are you respected, or ignored? Or worse, ridiculed?
Your worth shows in your finances; are you well compensated for the work you do, or do you allow yourself to be undervalued? Are you wise with your financial decisions, or do you spend/lose money constantly, thus keeping you in debt?
Your worth shows in the circumstances/people you attract into your life. Do you attract things/people that elevate your happiness and bring you joy, or are you mired in negativity and surrounded on all sides by unhappy people and circumstances?
Worth starts with you. No one can wave a wand and magically bestow worth on you. You need to own and claim it. It’s there, available for you. Only you can decide to receive and live it.
You may have been taught that you’re unworthy- that’s a lie by people too enmeshed in their own pain and shame to see the truth. Or by people who desired to control you and make you more easily follow what they said. Whatever “authority” figure told you that, they’re wrong; plain and simple. Do not believe them and keep living in your own pain. Rise above and claim your worth.
Everything comes back to worth- everything.
So right now, put your hands over your heart, close your eyes, feel into the center of yourself, breath and connect to you. When you’re ready, open your eyes and say to yourself:
“I am worthy.”
“I am worthy of love.”
“I am worthy of happiness.”
“I am worthy of financial wealth.”
“I am worthy of radiant health.”
“I am worthy of my dreams coming true.”
“I am worthy of ease and grace.”
“I am worthy of laughter and joy.”
“I am worthy of being loved and cherished.”
“I am worthy of pleasure.”
“I am worthy of freedom.”
“I am worthy of being heard.”
“I am worthy of being seen.”
“I am worthy of that job/promotion/raise.”
“I am worthy of nice things.”
“I am worthy of trustworthy friends and associates.”
"I am worthy of relaxation and inner peace."
“I am worthy of Divine assistance.”
"I am worthy of miracles."
“I am worthy of __________”- (fill in the blank with what you most want)
“I am worthy, simply because I am!”
Now repeat this daily.
Print it, and post it on your bathroom mirror.
Say it with conviction.
Claim what is rightfully yours.
You are absolutely worthy- own that!!!
Print out for your mirror:
Me, Tina Germain, just sharing ways to make you the best you can be!