Getting What You Need vs What You Want

Sometimes the things in our lives show up as we need, more than how we want. Meaning, we may prefer our answer to be as we think it “should be,” and yet for deeper soul growth, it shows up a different way. 
 
Here’s an example- two clients have recently needed curses removed. Seemingly simple right? Remove the curse and be done with it. But ultimately, for each of them, the lessons were deeper than that and not so simple. Both were learning how to take their power back, and with that, they each had a core lesson; for one it was about self-love, for the other, forgiveness. So I could do what was asked, but it would not have been effective had they not addressed the bigger issue at hand. This is an extreme example, curses are not flying around that most people get them, so you can use this towards anything in your life.
 
Sometimes we look at the surface level “why is this happening,” and don’t delve into the deeper soul lesson. That’s why we’re here, soul growth. It isn’t about who wronged you, or having things be picture perfect, it isn’t about the car you drive or the money you make, it’s about what will advance you as a soul. Those lessons aren’t always easy, but they do serve a greater purpose.
 
The next time you bemoan why something keeps appearing, call your power back (remember nothing has power, except the power you give it!), forgive yourself for allowing it, accept what is, and then see what the deeper lesson is for you, be it self-love, understanding, patience, compassion, etc. The more you can own and embody the deeper lesson, the more elegantly everything will fall into place.